Stories of Love
There is an interesting thing
happening in the life of our church family right now. February is a
good month to address it. It's a phenomenon that has to do with
reconciliation of a supernatural kind. Reconciliation is ALWAYS
supernatural, but there's something especially poignant here.
Don't
worry. I'm not going off the proverbial "deep end", nor am I trying
to make something out of something that isn't. I think we are
actually in the midst of an extraordinary story, or stories, of
church as Jesus would have it!
I recently shared about the
reconciliation of a relationship that occurred last Fall for Colleen
and me. I don't have room to go into the entire story here. In
short, after a years-long friendship that had ended painfully four
years ago, Pete & Kathy Vigliotta came back into our lives.
We didn't reconcile out of a desire
for the Vigliotta's to come back to NewHeart. They didn't reconcile
out of a desire to come back either. The circumstances that God used
to bring the reconciliation about are vast and deep and very
personal.
However, as our friendship
experienced its first couple months of re-growth, it "just so
happened" (no coincidence to the Lord, mind you) that Pete &
Kathy were seeking the Lord for a right church home. It began to
stir in them that they were to return to NewHeart.
On the last Sunday of October, they
came back for the first time. Not knowing what it would be like,
they immediately felt right at home, and you as a Church responded
with open arms and warm hearts when you saw them. They were strongly
convinced this was the right move.
They did not know (no one did
except for Colleen and I) that the Sunday they came back was my
10 year anniversary as Senior Pastor of NewHeart. This also was no
mere coincidence! With all we've been through the last number of
years with my burnout and recovery experience, it was a huge thing
to welcome someone back rather than saying another painful farewell.
We (the Vigliotta's and I) are
talking and praying now about how to share their story with the
church on a Sunday morning sometime soon. It's just so profound!
Along with them came their daughter,
Sierra, and their youngest son, Richard, both of whom are alumni of
my Youth Ministry days here at NewHeart. Sierra is now married with
three kids and has shared her deep desire to both continue walking
with God and to have her kids raised in God's ways with this church
family. THAT'S deep!
I've shared on many occasions my
long-time desire to be in one place of ministry for a long time and
how gratifying it is to watch families grow. We have a handful of
families here now that include other Youth Group alumni that have
faithfully served God with us the last many years. Jenifer Milbauer,
Luke & Sarah Pedersen and Matt Jones are among them.
And now, as this relationship has
reconciled, other Youth Group alumni who are now grown, some of them
married and with their own kids, are re-discovering their own desire
to grow in their relationship with Jesus and have their families do
the same .... with the same church family they were raised in!
I talk to alot of Pastors. We all
experience the pain of people leaving our churches. That's nothing
new. Some people and families leave painfully. Every Pastor has to
accept this as a part of what we do.
Let me tell you what IS new ... the
experience of people who have left painfully returning back as
they've allowed God to continue to lead them in their journey. THAT,
my friends, is a STORY OF LOVE! And there are many of them being
birthed among us in this "season of harvest".
Only
God!
