Since
September, we've been actively exploring the issue of
"Emotionally Healthy Spirituality". Our premise has been that
you cannot separate your emotional health from your spiritual
maturity.
Experience tells us that when we do, we end up emotionally dwarfed,
thinking we are spiritually mature. In reality, we may have lots of
Bible knowledge and even have obtained some good Bible study skills
or spiritual disciplines. Unfortunately, these things alone do not
lead to a well-balanced spiritual maturity.
This
teaching series was inspired and drawn from my own life's journey
through the pain of burnout and back again. Both of those venues,
the series AND my journey, were greatly aided by the book of similar
title, The Emotionally Healthy Church, by Pete Scazzero. Pete
is Pastor of New Life Fellowship in Queens, New York.
Pete
and his wife, Geri, planted New Life in 1987. Somewhere around 1995,
Pete found himself burned out and Geri having decided to leave the
church due to his lack of leadership and ability to confront and
deal more healthily with people. A crossroads to say the least.
Where
the Lord led Pete and Geri was a journey that brought Pete to this
place of discovering what he calls "Emotionally Healthy
Spirituality". When I came across his book almost three years ago
now, it triggered some pretty deep transformation in my thinking and
living.
I
mentioned at the start of this teaching series that this set of
teachings would not be kind of "come and go" or "just another
series." It's not that any series or teaching I bring is viewed that
way in my heart. It IS that I believe this issue of walking out a
relationship with God, a spiritual life, is to be one that takes our
emotional health in hand to see it grown rightly and strongly.
It was
five years ago right now that I found myself spent, not knowing
which way to turn or where to go - burned out. I never thought it
would happen to me, but it did.
I had
given and given and given, denying my own need to be refreshed and
cared for. Many of you know what that's like because you've been
there yourselves. And, like me, you've been trained to just "pull up
your boot straps" and move on.
What
does it mean that this concept of Emotionally Healthy Spirituality
will be more than just another series for us? What does something
that is part of our foundation even look like?
Well,
for starters, it means we keep interacting with it. We don't allow
each other to live without its consideration and implementation into
our lives. We look at issues we face in light of it. We refuse to
keep denying the emotional part of our lives and how it impacts our
spiritual lives.
You
will also find it working its way into our decision-making processes
when we talk about what, where, when and how of ministries we offer.
I think it will especially be relevant to different small group
opportunities, where relationships are impacted at a deeper level
than most other ministries.
I am
extremely excited about what the future holds. You'll be hearing
more of that this month. Change is upon us. We are planning to move
our Sanctuary to Township Elementary School right after Easter while
our current Sanctuary is expanded, our breezeway is enclosed (no
more wind tunnel) and handicap-accessible restrooms are added.
It will
be a very exciting year at NewHeart. Stay tuned for more, and as you
give your friends, neighbors, co-workers, and family open and warm
invitations to come discover what the love of God is all about,
prepare yourself to let your invitation be, "Welcome Home at
NewHeart!"
Growing with you ...